When love turns sour
I really don't concur with MV's stand on hatred, revenge and graciousness=loserish.
I mean we all know about the saying "an eye for an eye, a tooth for a tooth" blah blah blah, it's written in the Holy Book even, but God also mentioned about loving your enemies as your own, and I can go on to quote many other biblical references but because MV does not believe in God, I have no idea how to make him see my point.
Why create a vicious cycle of enmity? All these bad blood leads no where. You may think that upon having your revenge, justice is served and you may have then accomplished a sense of self-gratification. But hey, if you think about it, will you really feel good hurting a woman you once loved and a girl who is innocent yet made to bear the brunt of her brother's errors?
I believe God will deal with the cad in His own time and in His way. Two wrongs do not make a right boy. It is akin to taking justice into your own hands wanting to serve out the sentence to the criminal when there is a judicial system to mete out the punishment. It's like A murders B and C exacts revenge for B by killing A and C ends up being convicted of manslaughter. Stupid ain't it?
The cad will get his bad karma. 26 years of living surely have taught you more than just vengeance alone. Since you claim not to love her anymore, why let yourself be bothered by it further and worse claiming bad karma for your intent/act of payback?
Be wise and think clearly.
I mean we all know about the saying "an eye for an eye, a tooth for a tooth" blah blah blah, it's written in the Holy Book even, but God also mentioned about loving your enemies as your own, and I can go on to quote many other biblical references but because MV does not believe in God, I have no idea how to make him see my point.
Why create a vicious cycle of enmity? All these bad blood leads no where. You may think that upon having your revenge, justice is served and you may have then accomplished a sense of self-gratification. But hey, if you think about it, will you really feel good hurting a woman you once loved and a girl who is innocent yet made to bear the brunt of her brother's errors?
I believe God will deal with the cad in His own time and in His way. Two wrongs do not make a right boy. It is akin to taking justice into your own hands wanting to serve out the sentence to the criminal when there is a judicial system to mete out the punishment. It's like A murders B and C exacts revenge for B by killing A and C ends up being convicted of manslaughter. Stupid ain't it?
The cad will get his bad karma. 26 years of living surely have taught you more than just vengeance alone. Since you claim not to love her anymore, why let yourself be bothered by it further and worse claiming bad karma for your intent/act of payback?
Be wise and think clearly.
posted by Sheena at 5:54 AM
5 Comments:
haha.. hate is but the most extreme form of love.
haiz. i think wad makes a man a real man is his capacity to b gracious and na de qi..fang de xia. nana! have u been studyin? jia you lei!
What makes a real man is his ability to show his real feelings. Gone is the "rambo" definition as a real man. Men feel pain, hurt, and cry. Rather than acting like nothing happens and going home to cry in the toilet, why not let it all out? If you were cheated on for a year plus, would you & could you take it in your stride and act nonchalant? If you could, that means you didn't love that person very much did you?
haha..
den again.. if u really love e person.. wudnt u want e person to be happy? if e gal had cheated u... there may b many reasons, ie. she was drunk/she wanted sum fun/ mayb u juz arent e one she wants? hmm.. i do get ur pt abt showing feelings.. but i in all honesty think that u cant blame sumone for not loving u. may haps, things juz arent meant to b. esp in matters of the heart. i do hope MV finds sumone who will genuinely love him for who he is and sumone more deserving of his love.
I agree that mv will find someone who will love and cherish him.. one day.
If only you knew his stoy, maybe your question would have been answered.
I quote "If you love a person, you want him to be happy" ??! Would you really TRULY be happy for him? Or should i go with the cliche-d quote "If he's happy, then i am" Love isn't just to make your partner happy. Its also about being selfish. Its about holding who you love close to your heart. Its about wanting to spend the rest of your life with that person. Thats true love. Thats happiness. Happiness is waking up every morning to see the one you love lying in bed beside you and knowing that person will lay there beside you for the rest of you life.
* My two cents worth*
wat amoc said in his 2nd comment is true. Bliss is only when 2 person love each other.
Don't try too hard loving someone who you know won't or can't love you in return.
Not getting loved is ok. Seeing someone you love going with someone he/she prefers is more heartbreaking.
Telling yourself if he's happy, u gonna be happy, even though the one he loves is not u. Why the need to tell urself all that, when you can avoid all these in the first place?
Sensibility is the answer. Take care cheesebuns. Heh
=)
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